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Post by jennifo on Sept 18, 2015 11:02:47 GMT -9
So, I know our little forum is mostly men and I can't predict what you all will say, but I want your opinions on this. A friend of mine posted this... and even though I don't feel it applies to me, it offends my feminine senses, haha. Attachments:
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Post by jennifo on Sept 18, 2015 11:10:02 GMT -9
My feelings is that it's completely okay to be both for free the nipple and to be promiscuous. His argument is that they contradict each other. So my big example of how both are simultaneously okay is that a male monkeys butt is always out, it only becomes sexual if he shakes it in front of a female and ASKS for sex. Both are okay. Why is it "counter productive" to just want another human being to take some context away from a situation whether the person wants to be haggled or not?
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Post by dazasta on Sept 18, 2015 11:58:16 GMT -9
Probably just because promiscuous gals are more likely to be outspoken than "prudes". Also attention seeking bandwagon hoppers. Yeah, there are plenty of psychological validations for his case but it's a generalization which of course will land off mark a lot. His remark seems both deliberately inflammatory and jaded, but with sincere intent towards humor. I don't think correlation=causation at all here, and I'm sure there are plenty of "virtuous" women who truly want equality or, like me, are just tired of American Puritanical culture being uptight about fucking everything when most of the world is completely over it.
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Post by JunkyardJesse on Sept 19, 2015 15:03:00 GMT -9
Kind of preaching to the choir maybe but the way I see it, if you have a puritanical mindset you are likely to believe that 1) tits are naughty 2) it's shameful for a woman to have sex. And if you don't have a puritanical mindset, you are likely to disagree with both of those points. So he's not necessarily wrong, although he paints things with a pretty broad brush. But his argument will probably only resonate with people already onboard with his view.
Of course there are probably also a lot of people in between that just kind of complacent enough with the status quo that they're not going to raise an issue about it although they might fall on one side of the argument or the other if asked to make an argument.
For the record I'm not offended by tits and it's nobody's business who or how many people anyone has sex with, nor is it a bad thing to get laid.
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Post by jennifo on Sept 21, 2015 1:41:36 GMT -9
Right, the responses on his original thread were pretty split between, "fuck you" and "oh my god, I totally agree!" And honestly most replies were female which is also frustrating. I feel like it doesn't matter how many men are turned to feminist sympathizers, there's always gonna be women keeping other women down.
Anyway as I sat there and tried to reason with him, he grew increasingly frustrated and threatened to delete the thread, which I dunno, felt childish? Like if you're gonna post bait, be prepared for differing opinions haha.
Haha, I think what pissed him off the most was that people were saying he was slut shaming and that was "defamation of character"... uuuh... dunno how else to interpret "stop being sleazy?"
What do you all think about a comparison of someone who hasn't checked their white privilege to a man telling a woman how to "feminist"? I could be wrong about this one, and willing to admit it, but I feel it's along the lines of woman's choice?
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Post by goblincock on Sept 21, 2015 6:11:38 GMT -9
Right, the responses on his original thread were pretty split between, "fuck you" and "oh my god, I totally agree!" And honestly most replies were female which is also frustrating. I feel like it doesn't matter how many men are turned to feminist sympathizers, there's always gonna be women keeping other women down. There are Uncle Toms....Aunt Tammys?...in every group!
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Post by jennifo on Sept 24, 2015 18:50:59 GMT -9
Haha aunt tammys, I like that. Damnit, aunt tammy!!
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